So asking those nearby if they object before you light up is one thing but what really annoys me is when you specifically chose a spot away from everyone else then halfway through your amazing smoke, some people come and sit down next to you (even though there are other seats & tables further away) & start to give you the looks & snide comments & it's frankly it's usually the women. In those incidents I don't move.
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If I'm smoking outside and it's not at home, I generally find a park bench or go to a cafe/pub smoking area.
I always pick somewhere that has the least potential for bother.
Tbh, if people don't like where I'm smoking, they must be arseholes, so they can fuck off and sit somewhere else.
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Haven't really been bothered by anyone when out and about. I only really smoke in beer gardens in the local pubs and there aren't any children around there after 8 on the evening. I occasionally have a smoke at work if I know I have an hour outside. I had a smoke one day in Inveraray when an older couple asked to join me on the bench I was sitting on, I offered to sit downwind, they both said they didn't mind. Turned out the man was a former navy man and used to enjoy a cigar in his youth, we had a very pleasant conversation about among other things cigars.
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So here is a new dynamic and sorry if this is considered changing subject, in my mind it's in keeping with the thread!
This has happened a few times to me... But literally 1 hour ago... This was my vue, ambiance and general state of mind!
Someone asked if "they could have a go" -NO!!
9/10 times this is met with as much attitude as people who ask you to smoke somewhere else!!
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I've not yet had any vocal negativity smoking cigars in public. Some admiring glances and some slightly snide ones, but generally, unless kids or lots of people (the latter just makes me anxious and can ruin a smoke), and I'm in an okay-to-smoke area, holier than thou types can sling their proverbial hooks.
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Originally posted by nplymouth View PostSo here is a new dynamic and sorry if this is considered changing subject, in my mind it's in keeping with the thread!
This has happened a few times to me... But literally 1 hour ago... This was my vue, ambiance and general state of mind!
Someone asked if "they could have a go" -NO!!
9/10 times this is met with as much attitude as people who ask you to smoke somewhere else!!
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[MENTION=2115]Bigboned[/MENTION] - so what do you say now? Just no... I have so many analogies, examples and other ways of assertively saying no but I always start with "I don't want to sound rude but" which then makes me angry at myself... Then if I receive any hostility I get more annoyed at myself!!
It's a weird one! Oh yeah sure, can I grab a sip of that champagne?
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Smoking Cigars Outdoors in Public
I just say 'nope' or 'no thanks' and turn my back ! It helps that I'm an angry looking 6'2" red head
I once said I'm gonna do you a favor n say no but that got me into having to explain n I can't be arsed with that when I'm grabbing some me time- I don't smoke when I have the wife n kids with meAndy
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A Mighty Wind Blows!
Originally posted by jimmy_g32 View PostWould agree entirely that away from kids and food, and downwind is the way to go!
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