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Not sure I'll have any money left for cigars. Solicitor bills are huge and nothings happened so far.
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See things are moving along, sure the pain, emotional & financial, will last a long time but losing 22kg is a hell of an achievement & I think that alone shows your commitment to the new you. Brace yourself for telling the family - no easy way but I'd hope you can do it together & the usual advice is try not to say anything negative about the ex to your kids. That must be the hardest thing but in the end they'll have a better appreciation of what you went through & hopefully try to stay neutral themselves.
When you're in a position to buy a few smokes send me a PM, I have some lined up for you!
Simon Bolivar: Liberator of Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru & Venezuela.
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Thanks all.
Just deleted most my post.
Probably not wise posting detail on here.Comment
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[MENTION=13469242]Kickback[/MENTION] sorry to hear that things haven't been able to work out, but I can say that time is a healer and every day will get better going forward. Fantadtic to hear about your running and weight loss. Big Props to you on that.
Just try and keep as level a head as possible and enjoy looking forward to the future, there will be great times and hard times ahead but you've already come this far there's nothing to stop you now.
A quick update on my situation, myself and my wife are now back together and making wholesale changes to our lives together, still taking things slowly and living apart (sort of, she spends most of her time at mine now) but things can work out in different ways I guess. I was worried she was doing this for a knee jerk reaction but its been 2 months and there's no signs of that.
either way we all need to keep working towards the light at the end of that tunnel which every one it may be and make sure there's a t least a few cigars to be had along the way!Comment
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Hardest day of my life.
Kids are superstars and are remarkably accepting after initial shock and grief. Long way to go but my kids are the best.Comment
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Hang tough - we’re all rooting for you brotherOriginally posted by Kickback View Post
"Dear heart, you're talking to a man- a real man- who drinks straight Tequilla, with lime and salt on the rim, and smokes cigars" (J Zavala)Comment
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Hang on in there it gets easierOriginally posted by Kickback View Post
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Hang in there! There will be hurdles to get over but keep running and jumping and you’ll get there my friendComment
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Thanks all. Sometimes things go too fast and other things go too slow.
I do try and focus on the future where my girls and I have special times on our own to make their memories. Whilst they're not here I'm looking forward to the solitude and my time plus a few social things with friends family and herfing.Comment
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Hoping all is going as smoothly as these things can, guess the positive is now the kids know - the is out of the bag &the only way is fwd. Try to any neg comments about your Ex to them &hopefully she'll play ball too.Simon Bolivar: Liberator of Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru & Venezuela.Comment
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As hard as it may be and probably will be at times, always try to be the bigger person, longer term you'll thank yourself for it.
Surround yourself with friends and family and enjoy the alone time as well, its good for heart, mind and soul. Get a cigar going and give your self time to reflect and work things out in your head.Comment
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But when you're ready to start looking for love again I'm told the new method is to look at Facebook Marketplace for second hand wedding dresses in your area thereby identifying all the newly single women in your area then filter by dress size.'Cigars are a hobby, cigarettes an addiction'Comment
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[emoji2960][emoji1787][emoji1787]Originally posted by PeeJay View Post
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Err wedding dress size is no indicator of current size.
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