Tweet
1. Always bring enough cigars for yourself and a few extras to hand out. It is bad form to arrive unprepared and you don?t want anyone labeling you as a ?mooch.?
2. Always be sure to bring something extra special to offer the host of the herf. You remember those dinner parties your wife drags you to? No, don?t worry, you don?t need to mind your table manners among the herfing crowd, but do bring something nice for the guys putting it together. It is a great, simple gesture of respect and kindness while it almost guarantees you will be invited back.
3. Never cut or light another herfer?s cigar. Cutting and lighting a cigar is an incredibly personal process. Breaking this rule would be the equivalent of reaching onto someone?s plate, cutting their food and then tasting it as well.
4. Always remember to bring your own cutters, lighters and other accessories.
5. Never ask another individual for a taste of his or her cigar. You don?t know where that mouth has been and it is simply rude.
6. Always use an ashtray. No, the floor is not acceptable.
7. Never extinguish your cigar, as it emits a foul aroma. Instead, set your cigar down and let it burn out on its own.
8. Always be courteous of other herfers, especially those who are new to cigars. Herfing is not an exclusive club. Be inquisitive. Ask what others are enjoying and help the new enthusiasts learn. You will not only get to expel some of your cigar knowledge but may also find a new friend to herf with.
9. Always avoid the term ?smoking.? Smoking is what those who consume cigarettes do. For example, instead of asking someone, ?What are you smoking?? or ?How long have you been smoking?,? say, ?What cigar are you enjoying?? or ?How long have you been into cigars?? ?Smoking? carries a negative connotation relating to habit-forming addictions. Cigars are about relaxation and a luxurious indulgence. They are not habit-forming addictions and are enjoyed by choice, not necessity.
10. Always, be sure to send a hand written thank you note to each herfer you meet. Just kidding, but wouldn?t mom be proud? A simple ?thanks? on the way out will suffice.
2. Always be sure to bring something extra special to offer the host of the herf. You remember those dinner parties your wife drags you to? No, don?t worry, you don?t need to mind your table manners among the herfing crowd, but do bring something nice for the guys putting it together. It is a great, simple gesture of respect and kindness while it almost guarantees you will be invited back.
3. Never cut or light another herfer?s cigar. Cutting and lighting a cigar is an incredibly personal process. Breaking this rule would be the equivalent of reaching onto someone?s plate, cutting their food and then tasting it as well.
4. Always remember to bring your own cutters, lighters and other accessories.
5. Never ask another individual for a taste of his or her cigar. You don?t know where that mouth has been and it is simply rude.
6. Always use an ashtray. No, the floor is not acceptable.
7. Never extinguish your cigar, as it emits a foul aroma. Instead, set your cigar down and let it burn out on its own.
8. Always be courteous of other herfers, especially those who are new to cigars. Herfing is not an exclusive club. Be inquisitive. Ask what others are enjoying and help the new enthusiasts learn. You will not only get to expel some of your cigar knowledge but may also find a new friend to herf with.
9. Always avoid the term ?smoking.? Smoking is what those who consume cigarettes do. For example, instead of asking someone, ?What are you smoking?? or ?How long have you been smoking?,? say, ?What cigar are you enjoying?? or ?How long have you been into cigars?? ?Smoking? carries a negative connotation relating to habit-forming addictions. Cigars are about relaxation and a luxurious indulgence. They are not habit-forming addictions and are enjoyed by choice, not necessity.
10. Always, be sure to send a hand written thank you note to each herfer you meet. Just kidding, but wouldn?t mom be proud? A simple ?thanks? on the way out will suffice.
GAS. Might I suggest an 11th commandment....never fart while sparking up a fine Habano.*
As you know 
SoM, MX and I have much to learn about your civilization, but please explain where the term "Herfing" came from.
BJ, BJCoro, and I am to please, so please aim (I read that somewhere but don't remember where 
)
don TJ and the 
Coros
mine under my lap....ohhhhh! You said ASH!
Comment